I came to this country from Sierra Leone when I was 21. I met one of my mom's friends, who told me to work in healthcare. I started as a home health aide in New York, then I moved to New Jersey and got started as a CNA at a facility. I worked for 8 years there before going to LPN school, and then became an RN.
I've always been in long term care, I've never done anything else. I want to care for older people - it's satisfying: the older people get, the more they get back to their younger selves. They've been through a lot - their whole lives - then they come to a nursing home, and I want to make that life accommodating and worthwhile. That’s what I strive for. There’s a resident who comes by my office every morning to tell me how her night was. She wants to talk to me about everything in her life, and I sit there and listen because sometimes that’s all they want, someone to listen.
I love what I do. I want to keep doing what I do - be an advocate for residents and older adults - all the way to retirement. I want to be that person they can trust to care for them. My mom was sick and she passed away. After she passed away, I left the job I was working because I didn’t have time to spend with her in her olden days - I was always saying, “Oh Mom, I’m at work.” After that day, I vowed if I couldn’t give it to her, I know I can give it to someone else. That’s my goal.
I love what I do. I want to keep doing what I do - be an advocate for residents and older adults - all the way to retirement. I want to be that person they can trust to care for them.
The DON that was here at St. Monica’s before me, I had worked with her when I just finished CNA school. As a new CNA, you sometimes feel like you aren't part of the team, but my first DON was always so inspiring: she would notice something good about you, even when you didn’t see it, and commend you. Because of her, I pushed myself to go farther. I got LPN training, and I met her once right after I became an LPN - she was so excited.
Don't feel intimidated. The workload is not easy, and sometimes you'll work long hours. Don't beat yourself up over everything - take it one day at a time. It’s not an easy road, but it’s very satisfying when you’ve done a day’s work that made someone happy. You get to go home and feel good about yourself. Don’t sweat the small stuff.